I’ve always been out of step with a world that wants to constantly show me what I’m not.
I’m not white. I’m not privileged. I’m not rich. I never completed college.
And in a world where difference is rejected, I let those outside circumstances define me, shame me and tell me I wasn’t good enough for far too long.
It was easier to focus on the future where I could still believe in my childhood dreams. So, I avoided being present in my relationships...work...life. I was numb, on auto pilot, always reacting to should, have to and can’t.
I ran from vulnerability, intimacy and connection, afraid it would expose all the things that were wrong with me.
I rejected everything around me to avoid being rejected.
And the cost?
I rejected me. And there’s nowhere to go from there.
I’m not white. I’m not privileged. I’m not rich. I never completed college.
And in a world where difference is rejected, I let those outside circumstances define me, shame me and tell me I wasn’t good enough for far too long.
It was easier to focus on the future where I could still believe in my childhood dreams. So, I avoided being present in my relationships...work...life. I was numb, on auto pilot, always reacting to should, have to and can’t.
I ran from vulnerability, intimacy and connection, afraid it would expose all the things that were wrong with me.
I rejected everything around me to avoid being rejected.
And the cost?
I rejected me. And there’s nowhere to go from there.
I was so focused on letting the world tell me what I'm not, that I forgot what I am.
So, I did the work.
I learned to listen, dream and dance to the unique rhythm of my own heart. Radical acceptance can only come from me and my trust in myself. Now, after years of coaching and therapy, I truly own my difference.
THERE IS NO SCRIPT FOR MY GREATNESS.
I am unique. I am driven. I am neurodistinct, which means I will always see the world differently. That’s my gift … to celebrate difference and embrace it as a superpower. Mine gives me the focus and drive to be a coach, entrepreneur, cheerleader, partner, mom and impact warrior as only I can be.
I learned to listen, dream and dance to the unique rhythm of my own heart. Radical acceptance can only come from me and my trust in myself. Now, after years of coaching and therapy, I truly own my difference.
THERE IS NO SCRIPT FOR MY GREATNESS.
I am unique. I am driven. I am neurodistinct, which means I will always see the world differently. That’s my gift … to celebrate difference and embrace it as a superpower. Mine gives me the focus and drive to be a coach, entrepreneur, cheerleader, partner, mom and impact warrior as only I can be.
I KNOW I AM A:
KNOWN AS THE RATCHET SAGE™,
I show up with
Philosopher Thinker energy
to be a
Rebel Domino
because I'm not playing with your greatness...
AND I won't let you deny your distinction!
AS THE PRINCIPAL COACH OF AUTHENTIC DISTINCTION,
I serve Authentically Distinct™ and Neurodistinct folks as their
Authenticity Activator
and/or
Business Accelerator.
THE AUTHENTICALLY DISTINCT™ FOLKS I WORK WITH
Authentically Distinct™ and Neurodistinct humans - like you - are on a mission so big that you feel very small and begin compromising your integrity to feel like you are winning and belong again.
You stop having hard conversations with yourself because it no longer feels safe to.
You get confused because you’ve hidden important parts of you, so you begin chasing people and things that don’t align with your true self.
This is why it is my mission to teach you how to use authenticity to create Actionable Safe Spaces™ so that you can operate from a place of self-honoring values and boundaries - all fueled by your deepest desires.
Because when you do, you have deeper connections and impact – and most important: you feel ready to handle that big mission!
In fact, after working with me, you can clearly see how big and right YOU are for that mission! Your authentic impact is your authentic voice; and your authentic voice is your authentic song.
You are too smart to not have the impact you want!
The Authentically Distinct™ folks that I work with are:
- Black woman who knows who TF she is no matter what anyone says.
- Successful entrepreneur who is creating true impact where I roam in these streets.
- Driven human with clear boundaries to say YES to what serves me and NO to what doesn’t.
- Joyous mother and partner royally ruling my Queendom with A Vybe Called Nix and our son, Sire.
- Proud beacon and model for intellectuals and neurodistinct folks who are seeking their own shine.
- Speaker and writer who coaches, educates, accelerates, and activates Authentically Distinct™ and Neurodistinct Folks.
KNOWN AS THE RATCHET SAGE™,
I show up with
Philosopher Thinker energy
to be a
Rebel Domino
because I'm not playing with your greatness...
AND I won't let you deny your distinction!
AS THE PRINCIPAL COACH OF AUTHENTIC DISTINCTION,
I serve Authentically Distinct™ and Neurodistinct folks as their
Authenticity Activator
and/or
Business Accelerator.
THE AUTHENTICALLY DISTINCT™ FOLKS I WORK WITH
Authentically Distinct™ and Neurodistinct humans - like you - are on a mission so big that you feel very small and begin compromising your integrity to feel like you are winning and belong again.
You stop having hard conversations with yourself because it no longer feels safe to.
You get confused because you’ve hidden important parts of you, so you begin chasing people and things that don’t align with your true self.
This is why it is my mission to teach you how to use authenticity to create Actionable Safe Spaces™ so that you can operate from a place of self-honoring values and boundaries - all fueled by your deepest desires.
Because when you do, you have deeper connections and impact – and most important: you feel ready to handle that big mission!
In fact, after working with me, you can clearly see how big and right YOU are for that mission! Your authentic impact is your authentic voice; and your authentic voice is your authentic song.
You are too smart to not have the impact you want!
The Authentically Distinct™ folks that I work with are:
- Transformational Coaches
- Neurodistinct Changemakers
- Impact-Based Entrepreneurs
- Innovative Creatives
- Change-Driven Academics
I don't want to be in step with the world. And, I don't want you to be either.
I want you to embrace your unique intellect and greatness so you can transform your difference into distinction that brings you AUTHENTIC strength, acceptance, power and money.
My Coaching Method
If you've heard my story (see video at the top of this page), it's no secret that I know the pressure of conformity & how it can diminish greatness.
I live with the past impact of this pressure - having survived it with clear knowledge of how much it snatches and threatens dreams.
I know how hard it is to navigate the external to find peace within your internal - how excruciating it is to seek clarity, confidence, and resilience in a world that tells you that your difference is a liability rather than the WIN it truly is.
Through years of therapy and coaching, I have formulated my own methodology for getting YOU to own, celebrate, and monetize your difference.
My Desire Choose Act ™ Methodology is designed to ensure you OWN, CELEBRATE, and ACTIVATE your difference as DISTINCTION and is expressed in my 1:1 and group coaching offers, as well as my signature series of coaching & training programs.
Rooted in frameworks from business strategy, cognitive behavioral therapy, human wellness, neuroscience, social justice theory, and philosophy - my signature method changes the game, with your difference now serving you rather than harming you. Your authenticity is truly a super power, WHEN you know how to see it and use it.
For myself - and countless clients - I've turned difference into superpower, limitations into opportunities, and marginalization into success.
I want to help you do that too.
Work with me to free yourself from worry and doubt and transform that special song inside of you into an intense energy and a powerful force for creating the gifts and opportunities you want.
After all, I want the world to hear YOUR rhythm, so we can all dance with you.
Work with me to free yourself from worry and doubt and transform that special song inside of you into an intense energy and a powerful force for creating the gifts and opportunities you want.
After all, I want the world to hear YOUR rhythm, so we can all dance with you.