It probably started when you were a child, invincible in your ability to imagine and create, before the world taught you otherwise. Back then, the days lasted forever and you could see everything, far and wide, all the way to the horizon into your bright future.
Do you remember? You danced to the beat of your dreaming heart. Your song like no other. Your future success so inevitable you could already taste it. You never doubted your ambitious vision was going to change the world. You knew you were different and everything inside told you this was a great thing! So, what happened? |
When I was seven and in college before the world convinced me to stop dancing to the beat of my own heart.
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Checked all the boxes. Jumped through all the hoops. Followed the script. And still, no matter what you do or how hard you try, everything you want keeps moving further and further away, always just out of reach.
So now, you’ve gotten used to settling for less and less, but it doesn’t mean you aren’t hungry - or don't want to dance. Your once voracious appetite for life is now just raw frustration, disappointment, rejection and pain. The noise is deafening, you can no longer hear your song - just the world - how can you dance?
And from this perspective, it seems so easy for everyone else. So you think, "there must be something wrong with me" - your dreams are too big and you are too small - you have the wrong rhythm and can't dance like everyone else. You don’t feel good about yourself anymore, so now you choose not to feel. Choose not to be present. Always in the future. Waiting for the other shoe to drop. Anticipating the next obstacle. Waiting for all your hard work to finally prove your worth.
So now, you’ve gotten used to settling for less and less, but it doesn’t mean you aren’t hungry - or don't want to dance. Your once voracious appetite for life is now just raw frustration, disappointment, rejection and pain. The noise is deafening, you can no longer hear your song - just the world - how can you dance?
And from this perspective, it seems so easy for everyone else. So you think, "there must be something wrong with me" - your dreams are too big and you are too small - you have the wrong rhythm and can't dance like everyone else. You don’t feel good about yourself anymore, so now you choose not to feel. Choose not to be present. Always in the future. Waiting for the other shoe to drop. Anticipating the next obstacle. Waiting for all your hard work to finally prove your worth.
YOU STOPPED LISTENING, DREAMING AND DANCING TO THE RHYTHM OF YOUR OWN HEART.
Somehow, along the way, you let your dreams, your drive, your ambition get hijacked by all the “shoulds” "can'ts" and “have tos.” You stopped trusting YOU amidst the false assumption that some other song was better. And in fear of rejection, you became convinced that survival AND success come from being like everyone else, doing what they do and following the script. As if your difference wasn't brilliance, ready to shine bright with all your greatness!!!
Somehow, along the way, you let your dreams, your drive, your ambition get hijacked by all the “shoulds” "can'ts" and “have tos.” You stopped trusting YOU amidst the false assumption that some other song was better. And in fear of rejection, you became convinced that survival AND success come from being like everyone else, doing what they do and following the script. As if your difference wasn't brilliance, ready to shine bright with all your greatness!!!
There is no script for your vision.
You are different and that is your superpower.
So, let’s find YOUR rhythm again.
Clarity, purpose, passion and success have always been inside you.
And coaching is the key for you to re-connect with, claim, and finally unleash your greatness.
What would THAT feel like after compromising yourself for so long?
So, let’s find YOUR rhythm again.
Clarity, purpose, passion and success have always been inside you.
And coaching is the key for you to re-connect with, claim, and finally unleash your greatness.
What would THAT feel like after compromising yourself for so long?
I know. I was just like you.
I - like you - paid the steep cost of conforming to the world’s expectations; doing so will always minimize YOU and distract you from what’s most important.
It’s easy to defend compromising yourself in order to achieve a sense of safety, but ultimately, there is a cost. And the anger and frustration of never being in step with the world OR with what you want for yourself is TOXIC.
I was numb. Not present. Reacting not responding. Knowing I have so much to contribute and never feeling worthy or authentic. I never seemed to find the key to unlock my superpower…until I did the work.
And this is what I learned:
Schedule a consultation with me to explore where you are now, where you want to be, and how coaching will get you there.
I - like you - paid the steep cost of conforming to the world’s expectations; doing so will always minimize YOU and distract you from what’s most important.
It’s easy to defend compromising yourself in order to achieve a sense of safety, but ultimately, there is a cost. And the anger and frustration of never being in step with the world OR with what you want for yourself is TOXIC.
I was numb. Not present. Reacting not responding. Knowing I have so much to contribute and never feeling worthy or authentic. I never seemed to find the key to unlock my superpower…until I did the work.
And this is what I learned:
- If you don’t value YOU, no one else will.
- If you don’t choose YOU, no one else will.
- If you don’t know YOUR greatness, no one else will.
Schedule a consultation with me to explore where you are now, where you want to be, and how coaching will get you there.
Tanisha Banks
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I signed up for several of Coach Ebony's program, including her #ThinkTank™ Experiences, because I wanted to learn how to get past the noise in my head that causes me to stall-out when it comes to getting anything done.
I had a clear vision of the business I was building; I just wasn't sure of the next steps to take that would keep me aligned and in order. After just one month, I understood how and why I sabotage myself. I also understood how to flip the page and look past these things to the areas where my strengths lie. HER COACHING IS POWERFUL, and I've had so many breakthroughs. I love that things are clearer now, how I reclaim my joy more and more each day, AND that I can now see the next steps for me and my business! |
Samuel Andre
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YES, she is a great coach for men too! I signed up for Coach Ebony's #BeDoAct™ Coaching Program and several of her programs because I was struggling with self-confidence and self-identity issues, even though I knew there was something special about me.
I knew that she could help me turn my mindset around about myself and this is what inspired me to work with her. She helped me figure out who and what my demons are and how to master them to my own advantage. Working with her, I felt confident enough to start creating the life I wanted and started making decisions accordingly. I was so tired of the self-doubt and not being able to do what I wanted out of fear. Now I think more highly about myself in general. And I can stand up for myself more often than I would before. I own who I am and command respect; I celebrate my wins and losses - I now see the world of possibilities out there for ME. |